How It Works

Start with you.
Then find out who fits.

One step comes first, and everything else unlocks from it. No subscriptions, no surprise charges. Here is exactly what happens, what each piece is for, and what you are investing in your future.

1

Complete SELF

Free · about 9 minutes · 24 questions

Honest questions about what you actually stand on: your integrity, honesty, trust and loyalty, how you take responsibility, how hard you work, how you treat people when you are right, and whether you can forgive. Real dilemmas, not a quiz. You get a real Resonance Profile out of it, free, whether you ever match with anyone or not. SELF is also the key: every match starts from it.

2

Choose who you want to understand

A friend, a partner, or (soon) your tribe

Pick the kind of match. What you need to have completed depends on the type: a Friend Match needs SELF; a Love Match needs SELF and LOVE. You choose how deep to go, from SELF alone up to a whole Path of domains. The more you have both completed, the more the reading can say.

3

Send the invite

Private link · free for them

They get a private link by email. They complete their side for free, the same domains you completed, and they never see your answers. Until they finish, the match simply waits.

4

Get your Match Report

Both of you, at the same moment

The moment you are both done, a private reading unlocks for both of you at once. It is never one-sided and never shared with anyone else. It looks at five things: where you Harmonise, where there is Tension, where you can Grow together, where there is Opportunity, and what is worth Exploring.

Three ways to match

What you need depends on who you are matching with. The higher the stakes, the deeper the reading.

SELF + their SELFFriend MatchFree · unlimitedThe simplest match there is. You finish SELF, your friend finishes SELF, and you both get a private reading of how you actually fit: what each of you stands on, from your word and your loyalties to your standards. Friends, family, colleagues, flatmates. Match as many people as you like. It never costs anything.About 9 minutes each
SELF + LOVE, both of youLove MatchA$19 per matchFor the person it matters most with. You each add the LOVE domain (attachment, needs, how you love, what you cannot live without), and the reading goes to the places most couples never talk about until it is expensive to. One payment covers both of you, and your partner never pays.About 9 + 15 minutes each
All 13 domainsTribe MatchComing soon · premium · price to be confirmedYour whole map, matched against people anywhere in the world. When someone matches you very closely, as a friend or a life partner, you both hear about it and can read the analysis of the two of you before deciding anything. If you both want to meet, we introduce you. It is not open yet.Unlocked by finishing all 13 domains

The more you complete, the deeper it reads

SELF alone gives a solid first read. Every domain you add gives the reading more to compare, so it gets deeper, more consistent and more thorough, for a friend or a partner. Your map is made of 13 domains in five Paths. You can add them in any order, and a match can include a whole Path at once.

SELF only

A solid first read of how you fit. Unlocks every Friend Match.

SELF + more domains

A far deeper read of both of you: values, money, family, what you want from life.

All 13 domains

The complete picture of both of you, and the door to Tribe.

Where it starts

SELF

The foundation for everything. Free, and the key to every match.

Free

Foundation

Mind · Vitality

Free

Direction

Purpose · Money · Career

Includes LOVE · A$19

Romantic Connection

Love · Intimacy · Family

Free

Social Connection

Relationships · Community · Adventure

Free

Legacy

Future

Any match that includes the LOVE domain is a Love Match at A$19, at any depth. Everything else is free.

Explore the 13 domains →

Tribe: coming soon

Friend and Love Matches compare you with people you already know. Tribe goes further: once you understand yourself in full, it can find the people you have not met yet.

1

Finish all 13 domains

Your complete map is what makes a match this close possible.

2

You choose to take part

Nothing happens until you say so. Being considered is your decision, not a default.

3

A match turns up

When someone anywhere in the world matches you very closely, you both get a notification showing how you score as friends and as life partners, for example 80% as friends and 60% as partners. You choose which to look at, or both.

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Read before you decide

You read the analysis of the two of you, as friends or as partners, before anything else happens.

5

Only if you both say yes

We introduce you, or help you reach out. This is a premium service, and the price will be confirmed when it opens.

Tribe is not open yet. When it is, we will ask for your explicit consent before anything about you is compared or shared.

Your investment

Free

SELF

Your profile. Always free.

Free

Friend Match

Unlimited. Always free.

A$19

Love Match

Once per match. Covers you both.

Prices are in Australian dollars. You only pay at the moment you send a Love Match.

Common questions

Do I have to complete everything?

No. Stop at SELF and you still keep your profile and every Friend Match you want. The rest is there for when you want a deeper, more thorough reading, and the more of your map you finish, the more each match has to work with.

What does the other person pay?

Nothing. Only the person who sends a Love Match pays, and one A$19 covers the reading for both of you. Friend Matches are free for everyone.

Can I match more than one person?

Yes. Friend Matches are unlimited and free. Each Love Match is A$19.

What if they never finish?

The match stays open until they do. Nothing is released to either of you in the meantime.

Who can see my answers?

You can. Your matches see the reading, never your individual answers, and nothing is shared without you acting. Details are in the Privacy Policy.

What if something goes wrong?

If a payment is taken but the invite is not sent, or the report cannot be generated, email support@resonanceme.com within 14 days and we will fix it or refund you. The Terms explain the rest.

More detail: Privacy Policy · Terms · The Science

Start SELF — free →

SELF costs nothing, always. You only ever pay when you are ready for a Love Match.